What Accessories Should the Groom Wear on His Wedding Day?

What Accessories Should the Groom Wear on His Wedding Day?

The wedding day is as much about the groom’s ensemble as it is about the bride’s. While the bride traditionally takes centre stage, the groom's accessories add personality, polish, and flair to his look. Whether it's a classic tuxedo or a laid-back suit, the right accessories can make all the difference.

1. What Accessories Should the Groom Wear on His Wedding Day?

The groom typically wears a well-fitted suit or tuxedo, paired with key accessories: a tie or bow tie, cufflinks, a pocket square, a watch, and shoes. Depending on the formality of the wedding, some grooms opt for suspenders, a boutonnière, or a belt that complements the overall theme. These elements help create a polished, well-coordinated look. For example, consider a tailored tuxedo with sleek black leather shoes and a classic silk tie for a formal event​

2. Should the Groom’s Accessories Match the Bride’s?

While the groom's accessories don't need to match the bride's exactly, many couples choose accessories that complement each other. For example, matching cufflinks or a tie in the same colour family as the bride's dress or bouquet ties everything together beautifully. A coordinating tie or pocket square that matches the bridesmaids’ dresses is much more popular as it's a slightly more subtle look—can elevate the cohesion of the wedding style. 

3. What Kind of Boutonnière Should the Groom Wear?

The groom’s boutonnière should complement the bride’s bouquet but can be a bit more unique and personalised. A classic boutonnière typically features a single flower or small arrangement that coordinates with the wedding’s floral theme. Whether it’s a simple rose, a sprig of greenery, or a more intricate design, the groom’s boutonnière can stand out with a unique touch, such as a different flower or a more elaborate style compared to the groomsmen’s​. Or for a more lasting idea, you could opt for a matching fabric lapel pin instead of fresh flowers.

4. How Do I Choose the Right Tie or Bow Tie for My Wedding?

Choosing the right tie or bow tie is crucial for creating the desired look. For a formal wedding, classic silk ties or bow ties in muted tones such as black, navy, or silver are ideal. A knit tie or casual bow tie works well for more laid-back weddings, while choosing a tie that reflects the wedding's colour palette can make a great statement. Don't forget the option of a pocket square to add a splash of personality​.

5. What Colour Should the Groom’s Accessories Be?

The colour of the groom's accessories should either match or complement the wedding's colour palette. Neutral tones like black, grey, navy, or ivory are timeless and versatile. For a more playful wedding, consider incorporating accent colours from the bridesmaids' dresses or the wedding theme—such as a blush pink tie or a vibrant pocket square. Neutral tones work well for a classic wedding, while bolder shades can add flair to more contemporary or themed weddings​

6. Can the Groom Wear Jewellery on the Wedding Day?

Yes! Many grooms opt for minimal jewellery, such as a classic watch, cufflinks, and a wedding band. Some grooms may choose to wear additional accessories like a bracelet or necklace. A well-chosen watch or unique cufflinks can provide a subtle yet sophisticated detail to the groom's ensemble​

7. Should the Groom Wear Suspenders?

Suspenders are a stylish and functional accessory that adds personality to the groom's look. Whether paired with a tuxedo or a more casual suit, suspenders can add a vintage or dapper touch. If the wedding is more casual, suspenders in contrasting colours or patterns can be a fun, personal addition. For a formal wedding, choose braces in a colour that matches or complements the rest of the outfit​

8. What Shoes Should the Groom Wear?

The groom’s shoes should match the formality of his suit or tuxedo. For formal weddings, classic black or brown leather shoes are standard choices. For less formal or more relaxed weddings, consider loafers, dress boots, or even stylish sneakers, depending on the wedding’s vibe. Make sure the shoes are polished and comfortable enough for all-day wear​

9. Should the Groom Wear a Pocket Square?

A pocket square is a popular accessory that adds a touch of elegance and personality. Whether it’s a simple white pocket square for a classic look or one that matches the colour of the tie for added flair, it’s an easy way to complete the groom’s ensemble. A pocket square can either match the tie or provide a pop of contrast to make the groom’s look stand out​

10. What Accessories Can the Groom Give to His Groomsmen?

A thoughtful way for the groom to show appreciation to his groomsmen is by gifting them accessories that they can wear on the wedding day. Common gifts include cufflinks, tie clips, socks, or even personalised items such as engraved flasks or custom pocket squares. These thoughtful accessories not only thank the groomsmen for their support but also help create a coordinated and polished bridal party look​

 

The groom’s accessories are an essential part of his wedding look, offering both functionality and style. From ties to cufflinks and shoes, these small details come together to create a polished and cohesive ensemble. Whether you’re planning a formal black-tie event or a relaxed outdoor ceremony, these accessories can elevate your style while ensuring you feel comfortable and confident on your big day. Find more accessory inspiration here> 

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