Your wedding party’s look sets the tone for your entire day. A well-coordinated group (with the groom standing out of course!) creates a timeless aesthetic that photographs beautifully. Accessories are a simple yet powerful way to achieve that unity.
If you haven’t already, start with our guide to How to Coordinate Wedding Accessories Across the Whole Wedding Party
Defining the Groom’s Look
The groom’s accessories should echo the overall colour palette but with small touches that distinguish him from his groomsmen. There are a few ways you could achieve this:
- Choose the same colour, but upgrade the fabric - for instance, a silk tie for the groom and polyester one for the groomsmen.
- Change subtle details like a pocket square, lapel pin or boutonnière in a complementary tone.
- Select a slightly different shade (e.g. dusty blue for the groom, navy for the groomsmen).
- Or opt for the classic ivory tie and waistcoat to set you apart from the group.
These small adjustments keep your look cohesive without everyone being identical.
Matching the Groomsmen
When it comes to your groomsmen, balance and simplicity are key. Matching ties, pocket squares and even socks can pull their look together effortlessly, especially when tied into your wedding’s colour theme.
If your bridesmaids are wearing blush, the groomsmen might wear coordinating ties in blush (although be aware that different companies have different colour names, so 'blush' dresses might match 'rose', 'blush pink' or 'vintage rose' ties). For a modern look, consider textured fabrics like twill or shantung, which add depth while staying refined.
💡 Tip: Always order one or two extra accessories in case of last-minute changes or additions to your party!
Complementing the Bridesmaids
For a truly unified wedding party, make sure the groomsmen’s accessories match the bridesmaid dress, although this could come through a matching colour in a patterned tie, pocket square or lapel pin. If you're thinking of a more varied colour scheme then here's a few tried and tested combos:
- Blush bridesmaids pair beautifully with taupe or dusty rose ties.
- Sage dresses suit champagne, ivory, or beige ties.
- Navy dresses look elegant beside grey or silver accessories.
Matching fabrics between the two sides (for example, satin ties with satin dresses) creates consistency across your photos and makes the colours look the most uniform.
Finishing Touches
Don’t forget the smaller details that can elevate the entire ensemble:
- Pocket Squares: Match them to the tie for a formal look, or pick a complementary colour or pattern for subtle contrast.
- Lapel Pins or Boutonnières: Add personality while tying in the floral theme.
- Matching Socks: Perfect for group photos and keeping the theme consistent down to the last detail.
A final polish ensures the whole party looks effortlessly styled and helps the groom shine as the focal point.
FAQs
Q: Should the groom’s tie match the groomsmen’s exactly?
Not necessarily, a slight difference in texture or tone helps the groom’s look stand out. or consider a mix-and-match type ensemble to allow the groom to shine independent of the groomsmen.
Q: Can I mix different fabrics within the wedding party?
Yes! As long as colours complement one another, mixing silk, satin, or patterned fabrics adds visual interest.
Q: How can I coordinate with the bridesmaids’ dresses?
Use your main wedding colour as a guide and pick ties or pocket squares in matching shades.
